Thursday, February 18, 2010

what goes around comes around...

hello my dear readers...sorry for keeping you all away from another big dose of muft gyaan from the past 15 days...lolzzz (do i hear oh no !koi toh pakane aa gaya wapas...lolzz).before i begin this blog of mine i want to apologise to my fellow blogger Miss Mind contemplation for not being able to come to the awesome seminar held last friday but as life would hav it there is 1 more seminar tommorow yipeeee.... but seriously i had some genuine reasons for not turning up...unlike some people who give lame reasons like are nahi yaar bore ho raha hai...(wat the duck..)so i can be excused wat say??...

now here is the thing i came up with this new blog idea last wednesday while listening to the beautiful song by Mr.justin timberlake(what goes around comes back around...hmmm superb song!).this song of his got me thinking that how true these words are indeed..you reap what you sow..always .

case study 1:you are a loner,cynic,always finding a reason to complaint.but you want everybody to like and adore while you continue being sulky and sour

outcome:hello wake up! you wil definitely be avoided,blah blah blah.and this cycle will continue.

case study 2:you try and care for others,you are kind and understanding,want genuine happiness for yourself and your near ones

outcome:dhan tan nan you wil find more reasons in everyday life to cherish,look forward to.in all happiness will find you.

but one thing is to be kept in mind you will not always meet people who are good,kind,generous be practical yaar because there are all kinds of people in this world...but the main idea is not to let their negative ,hopeless attitude get to you..cause what you give is what you get..

now hum sab movies dekhte hain...you know ki hero is shown to be the good guy,naughty but with a heart of gold inside,loved by everyone he knows...and then there is the villain to make life hell for the hero...but the hero always wins in the end... happy ending, a fairy tale thing some would say reality is far from that..i seriously beg to differ,because the moment the hero faces hurdles and all he too like every one else gets depressed,sad and willowy.but he has in him what we must strive for each passing day ,not to give in,the power the faith to do the things that are right and good.he keeps the faith that all is going to end well because that was the bigger plan.he rises like a phoenix and voila the villain however powerful gets busted,the hero is here to stay.

so why give up on doing good things,coz like in the movies watever you do really does come back to you..its upto u whether you want to be the hero or the villain .good karma however small will definitely come back to you..dont stop beleiving in the power of doing good.and one more thing to get your brain absorb the above mentioned thing recall how do you feel after helping some 1 ,being nice to some1,acha lagta hai na... and now compare it to the feeling of being purposely rude to some1..im sure no1 likes that feeling...right.so guys why not try and do things that makes us and others feel good barabar na??so have faith in the good you do it will surely come back to you when you need it the most.

ps:if itna explain karne k baad bhi nahi samjha toh guys pre primary school main admission le lena.to the others ...ciao till the next blog.

forgive n forget

hey fellas here iam bk again wid another topic whch is rather close to my heart....for this forgive n forget funda is wat gets u going on a gloomy day.here i was a teenager wid my share of problems be it studies,frnds k saath misunderstandngs,parents se arguments....and 4 all those thngs i wud lyk every1 else blame sum1 else 4 it...but i realised in dng that i still had the hurt fresh in my mind,while i blamed sum1 or no1 in particular 4 all the thngs that wer gng wrong in my lyf i still couldnt erase them 4m my mind.however hard i tried to make sum 1 else responsible 4 my own misery i still cudnt run away 4m mine..
but then as always lyf gives u the answer in the most simplest of forms while ur busy searchng the whole stack of hay.i came across an article abt sum gr8 personality telling (i dnt remember the name guys..sorry 4 my bad memory...) abt the healing power of forgiveness...heading padhte hi laga bahut hi-fi philosophy lagti hai certainly nt 4 me...(dats the way v teenagers r rite??...) but sumthng struck a chord an i began readng it ignorng my earlier dumb conclusion altogether..and here i found a few golden words ki forgiveness nt only reedeems the criminal but also liberates the soul of the victim...(bahut jyaada ho gaya na...lol) meaning ki agar aap ko koi hurt kare let it b any1 unless an until aap use forgive nahi kar saktey u keep the hurt alive inside...and wen u forgive dat person u do a favor to urself..dan to the 1 who caused u hurt..
and 4m dat moment i hav tried to incorporate dat thng in my lyf to forgive and to forget...cause lyf is too short to keep grudges ,,y all the negative thots wen u deseve to hav all the happy thots in the world...secondly here im not encouraging takn nonsense behaviour 4m ppl and become a toe rug no no ..im just saying ki wen u feel dat if the relation u share wid the person who hurt u is important enough dan dont let any such differences cum in between,also communication plays an important role.make others realise ki u hav been hurt..giv em a chance atleast to apologise..coz ppl in general r gud inside however tough,insensitive they might luk 4m the outside..
but again even if this funda of forgiveness doesnt reap results so ppl use the forgettng part..ppl who even aftr tellng and considering dont change dan god bless them...its not upto u to try n go out of ur way 4 dem..let it go.but in doing dat again keep nothng against such ppl...socho ki it was never meant to be dats it to it..
and thirdly if the person hurtng u is another bully who gets satisfaction in makng lyf hell 4 ppl.dan my dear readers omit the part written above 4m ur memory an use ur best punch in the face...ha ha
ps:the writer wishes to mention dat she is a supporter of non violence(i kno a hell lot of u wud want to disagree wid this ...lolzz)...any injury to any person aftr readng this blog is not the responsibility of the writer..take care and b safe guys till the next blog ....