forgive n forget

hey fellas here iam bk again wid another topic whch is rather close to my heart....for this forgive n forget funda is wat gets u going on a gloomy day.here i was a teenager wid my share of problems be it studies,frnds k saath misunderstandngs,parents se arguments....and 4 all those thngs i wud lyk every1 else blame sum1 else 4 it...but i realised in dng that i still had the hurt fresh in my mind,while i blamed sum1 or no1 in particular 4 all the thngs that wer gng wrong in my lyf i still couldnt erase them 4m my mind.however hard i tried to make sum 1 else responsible 4 my own misery i still cudnt run away 4m mine..
but then as always lyf gives u the answer in the most simplest of forms while ur busy searchng the whole stack of hay.i came across an article abt sum gr8 personality telling (i dnt remember the name guys..sorry 4 my bad memory...) abt the healing power of forgiveness...heading padhte hi laga bahut hi-fi philosophy lagti hai certainly nt 4 me...(dats the way v teenagers r rite??...) but sumthng struck a chord an i began readng it ignorng my earlier dumb conclusion altogether..and here i found a few golden words ki forgiveness nt only reedeems the criminal but also liberates the soul of the victim...(bahut jyaada ho gaya na...lol) meaning ki agar aap ko koi hurt kare let it b any1 unless an until aap use forgive nahi kar saktey u keep the hurt alive inside...and wen u forgive dat person u do a favor to urself..dan to the 1 who caused u hurt..
and 4m dat moment i hav tried to incorporate dat thng in my lyf to forgive and to forget...cause lyf is too short to keep grudges ,,y all the negative thots wen u deseve to hav all the happy thots in the world...secondly here im not encouraging takn nonsense behaviour 4m ppl and become a toe rug no no ..im just saying ki wen u feel dat if the relation u share wid the person who hurt u is important enough dan dont let any such differences cum in between,also communication plays an important role.make others realise ki u hav been hurt..giv em a chance atleast to apologise..coz ppl in general r gud inside however tough,insensitive they might luk 4m the outside..
but again even if this funda of forgiveness doesnt reap results so ppl use the forgettng part..ppl who even aftr tellng and considering dont change dan god bless them...its not upto u to try n go out of ur way 4 dem..let it go.but in doing dat again keep nothng against such ppl...socho ki it was never meant to be dats it to it..
and thirdly if the person hurtng u is another bully who gets satisfaction in makng lyf hell 4 ppl.dan my dear readers omit the part written above 4m ur memory an use ur best punch in the face...ha ha
ps:the writer wishes to mention dat she is a supporter of non violence(i kno a hell lot of u wud want to disagree wid this ...lolzz)...any injury to any person aftr readng this blog is not the responsibility of the writer..take care and b safe guys till the next blog ....